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I try very, very hard not to judge other parents– unless, that is, they happen to be a celebrity posting ridiculous pictures of themselves on the Internet, in which case I feel like they’re almost asking me to giggle and roll my eyes.
Here’s a photo that Beyonce just posted on her Tumblr page — with B looking after her daughter Blue in satin bustier undergarments and four-inch heels. OF COURSE. Pretty much how I dress for preschool drop-off every day.
Gisele posted this photo on Instagram with the hashtag #multitasking. When she posts a picture of her vacuuming with one hand, talking to preschool on the phone with the other, and holding one kid on one hip while dealing with a tantrum-throwing kid clinging to her ankle… THEN, she can type #multitasking.
Because I’m an equal opportunity fun-maker, here’s a lovely photo of new dad Nick Jonas holding baby Alena — SPONSORED BY DREFT.
Miranda Kerr posted this snapshot of her breastfeeding in red stilettos and a silk robe. Just like ALL moms breastfeed their kids — only, you know, in slippers, sweats and a milk-stained nursing bra. But otherwise EXACTLY the same.
Real Housewives “star” Kim Zolciak poses oh-so-casually for a selfie in her finest French maid-inspired maternity lingerie.
Perhaps the only debate that gets folks more riled up than the PRO-LIFE VERSUS PRO-CHOICE argument is one of equal importance: CATS VERSUS DOGS! This is no surprise, considering we’re encouraged to side with one animal or the other from an early age. Many of us grew up in a house with either a dog or a cat — rarely both — thereby giving us a one-sided perspective as to which is the “best” pet. Not to mention all of the Disney movies portraying cats as evil villains ultimately foiled by the dumb-but-sweet dogs. To wit:
Clearly, a cat puked in Walt Disney’s loafers and he never got over it.
Me…? I’m just an animal lover who even tries to save spiders and crickets that infiltrate the house, much to the chagrin of Mr. Candy who prefers a less kind welcome involving the sole of his shoe. I founded a “Save the Whales” group in sixth grade, stopped wearing leather when I was 16 and started wearing leather again when I was 16-and-a-half (my concern for animals only extends so far, apparently). If I had to label myself, I suppose I am a “cat person,” given I grew up with cats and currently have three rescue Persians — and have zero desire for a dog. This doesn’t mean I don’t like dogs or that I don’t lavish them with the expected pat on the head when greeted by one. Cats just complement my personality more. They crap in a box, clean themselves, cuddle with me for a few minutes, then give me my space while they nap for hours on-end.
If only I could get my kids to do that.
Dogs, well, I understand their appeal; they are just too high-maintenance for me. However, if your beloved dog were to pass away…? Please know I would never, EVER respond with:
“Oh. I’m not a dog person, so…”
Then leave it hanging there awkwardly, as if I, being a CAT PERSON and all, couldn’t possibly relate to why you would mourn a CANINE. Good riddance, I say!
I feel inclined to note this because more than a handful of self-identifying Dog People said this to me when our cat, Marcy, died last year. As loyal followers (and bless your hearts for being so) of this here blog know, we didn’t have the best of luck during the holidays of ’10 and ’12, with our two long-time pets dying right before Christmas each year. We welcomed two children, then soon thereafter said good-bye to our beloved cats. It was a sad and emotional time, with me breaking down at the mere mention of their names. And when I shared the news of their passing with friends and teachers, a jarring number of people dismissed it with:
“Oh. I’m not a cat person, so…”
That’s IT. No “I’m sorry.” No “That sucks.” Just altogether dismissing the animal as not worthy of their sympathies.
Look, I’m not telling people to get a cat. Why would I? I don’t even tell people to have kids. (Although eating in restaurants with a cat is way easier.) I’m not even asking them to like cats. (Although, really? You don’t like ANY cats? That’s a little weird. I can only assume a cat puked in your loafers, too.) I’m just asking that, when presented with a person who is on the verge of sobbing because her cat died in her the arms the night before, that you at least manage more than “I’m not a cat person.”
Don’t worry. A display of sympathy will not brand you a — GASP! — cat lover by association. We won’t start tagging you on stupid cat memes on Facebook. Seriously, though, don’t even preface your condolences with “I’m not a cat person…” It just makes the already sensitive mourner even sadder (unless that is your intention, in which case, carry on!) and perhaps mad enough to puke in your loafer. If you’re still not sure what an appropriate response is and, more importantly, would like to avoid bodily fluids in your shoes, here is a handy-dandy guide:
THE RIGHT VERSUS WRONG WAY TO RESPOND TO A BELOVED CAT’S DEATH
RIGHT: What a shame.
WRONG: What a shame the car didn’t run over it AND back up for good measure!
RIGHT: I’m sorry.
WRONG: I’m sorry, but I don’t care.
RIGHT: You must be heartbroken.
WRONG: You must be heartbroken this didn’t happen sooner.
RIGHT: Oh no. How did s/he pass away?
WRONG: Oh no. How did it come to pass that you got a cat instead of a GOOD pet?
RIGHT: That reminds me of the time I lost a dear pet…
WRONG: That reminds me of the joke about the cat in a blender…
Take that advice for what it’s worth. If “I’m not a cat person” is still all you can muster, well, so be it. In the interest of mending fences between CAT and DOG people, I extend this peace offering — an offering I wholeheartedly believe could even end the Israeli–Palestinian conflict — that I like to call: RIDICULOUSLY CUTE PICTURES OF DOGS AND CATS (cue the “Thank You for Being a Friend” background music):
What Valentine’s Day candy hearts might say if toddlers ruled the candy companies (like they rule most everything else)…
Because, sometimes, we all need a li’l dose of Golden Girls to help us get through the day.
Thank you, girls, for being a GIF…er, friend.
Yeah, some definite red flags here.
I’m in the midst of potty-training my second kid and, while his heart and intentions are in the right place, his aim sure isn’t. Which is why I present SEVEN POTTY-TRAINING MEMES to help all of us — past, present, future and never-ever potty trainers — laugh through children’s, um, misplaced efforts…
Everybody’s talking about how Beyonce and Jay-Z’s performance of “Drunk in Love” at last night’s Grammys was oh-so-so risque — but, as a fellow parent, all I could see was how parenthood totally influenced their style and moves. Check it out:
Poor Beyonce. No time to finish drying or styling her hair — such is the life of a mom.